Second Date.

terms of service

last updated: july 15, 2026

what this is

Second Date gives you reply suggestions and coaching for your dating conversations. It's advice. You decide what to send, and you're responsible for what you send. We can't and don't guarantee dates, matches, relationships or replies.

who can use it

You must be 18 or older.

be decent

Use Second Date to communicate better as yourself. Don't use it to harass anyone, to deceive people about who you are, or to pressure someone who isn't interested. The coaching is built to tell you when to move on; listen to it. We can close accounts that abuse the service or other people.

pricing

Your first reply is free. After that, a subscription is $6.99 per month for 150 replies, billed through Stripe. It renews automatically until you cancel, and cancelling stops the next charge (you keep access until the end of the paid period). Unused replies don't carry over.

refunds

Something wrong? Email hello@seconddate.me within 14 days of a charge and we'll sort it out fairly.

your content, our content

What you paste stays yours, and the replies you get are yours to send. The app itself — its coaching method, branding and design — is ours; don't copy, resell or reverse-engineer it.

the honest legal bit

Second Date is provided as-is. AI-generated suggestions can be off. We're not liable for what happens in your conversations or dates; our total liability is capped at what you paid us in the past 12 months. Dutch law applies.

changes

If these terms change materially, we'll say so in the app. Questions: hello@seconddate.me.